It is a really simple yet complicated question
Reason:
- If you like him and you don’t know – then you need to take time to evaluate which may be construed as not interested
- If you don’t like him and you tell him upfront, you might risk hurting him badly
- If you don’t like him and you don’t tell him upfront but with diplomatic gesturing – you might end up hurting both the people involved
Considering this, it would be better if you sit down and evaluate
- How well do you know what you need
- How well do you know what you want
- How well do you know the person
- Will your positive or negative answer impact the person adversely
- Post your actions – will the topic be put to rest or it might take some ugly turn?
Think about it
You are a best person to know the situation more than anybody else telling you.
Use your time, energy & emotions to think and come to a solution.
Hope this helps
God Bless!

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